I'm trying my best not to interfere; not to give my opinion or advice. I only want to understand her. To understand what she's going thru and be beside her to give her support. I don't want to tell her what to do. Or be like a parent figure talking down to her; telling her how she should feel. I just want to be with her. I want her to know that I care more about what she's feeling than what she "should" be feeling. I just want her to know that I SEE her.